It is good if you donate on your way back.
It is good if you donate on your way back.
Yes you may do so.
It is not only Brahmins, even Swami Vivekananda’s trip abroad raised a lot of oppositions. Avoiding the inter-mixture of cultures could be a strong reason for restricting people from crossing oceans.
When we love someone, we dress ourselves in a manner that would please the beloved. In the same way, devotees dress themselves according to the wish of their ishta devatas. When doing so, one has to chant the different names of the ishta devata. The specific parts of the body where sacred ash/gopi chandan are applied are considered important by our scriptures.
Ash is the remains after burning. Gopi Chandan is nothing but the sand found in the sea shore of Dwaraka.
While Vibhuti (sacred ash) is applied by the Saivites after burning the ‘I’ sense (ego), Bhagavatas apply the sand under which their ‘I’ sense is buried, over which Lord Sri Krishna lived, danced and played.
Just like every other woman, a pregnant woman too feels ‘at home’ at her parents’ place and enjoys more freedom there. She will be taken care of better and can rest more when compared to her in-laws’ place.
This is the simple logic behind sending a pregnant woman to her parents’ place. There is no other reasoning behind it.